oh i absolutely know how to confront people who’ve actually done crappy stuff and i have broken up with friends before, that’s not the problem. the problem is that he’s too chill for me to feel comfy with essentially kicking him out of the room. even though i’m not super close with him i don’t wanna have this convo bc it literally just boils down to ‘hey can you live somewhere else you’re throwing off the vibes’ which feels really selfish and rude imo. we’ll get along fine with him but he’s like 3 years older and way more quiet than us and probably won’t wanna get involved with our goofy shenanigans. he’s a perfectly fine dude but just isn’t the best fit for us