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Just because someone is being mean to you doesn’t give you license to be mean in return. “An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind”
In responding to rudeness, you should try to bring peace to the argument. Don’t always be trying to get revenge.
i’m not being mean, but i’m just saying i’m not gonna pretend that i like them. i haven’t actually ratio-ed them or anything but i’ve been actually very nice and constructive (and even suggested other no-code website builders they could use that would be better). but they were incredibly rude to me. i think most people that have reposted them have been contructive or offered general questions about hteir service/model.
You don’t have to pretend that you like them. Just keep acting kind in response and maybe they’ll realize what a jerk they’re being. Even if they don’t, it’s the right thing to do.
i just started ignoring them 
respect is earnt, not demanded and facts > feelings
That’s not a very good way to live though in general, if you’re constantly forcing everyone to earn your respect.
Loving people unconditionally is the right way to live.
No, someone has already earnt my respect if they aren’t annoying/rude etc. a new guy I’ve just met who has done nothing has earnt my respect
That’s not technically “earning” respect, it’s more like respecting everyone by default but they can lose your respect. But that’s good though.