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View allHey man, you’ve been getting really mad when people disagree with you recently. You blew up at k10398 and me on the Palestine thing (I agree with you mostly, but there’s a lot more nuance to it) and then got really annoyed with my comment on the recent post (not to defend myself, but my comments were literally only inductive reasoning). And, you unfollowed me on the Palestine thing. You also accepted k10398’s apology pretty coldly (although I don’t know what your intent was, it looks pretty cold on the outside).
I don’t think that’s a healthy way to live which is why I’m saying this to you. I’m sincerely sorry if I’ve been a jerk in any way, but I definitely don’t think all of this is deserved. I want to have a friendly relationship, not like what we’ve been having recently. If there’s anything I should do, let me know.
If you want to respond or debate, I’m willing to, just don’t make a big, public deal about it (you usually don’t which is good).
You are not entitled to being liked by me. Please delete this.
May I ask why?
why what
Two things:
Why I’m not entitled to be liked by you
Why I should delete the comment
I care about the first more than the second
That’s just a basic fact, I do not have to like you.
You’re acting like you’re someone who I have a reason to be in a relationship with, like an irl friend or acquaintance, even though you are not. Your comment on “its not healthy to be angry“ feels very condescending, I do not like to be angry, but you seriously annoy me sometimes, and its hard to get you to go away without being aggressive sometimes.
we don’t have to be friends, and with the way you act, I don’t really want to be.
I also do not want to be aggressive or angry, but I will if I feel it is necessary.
If I said the same words to you in real life, would you take them more seriously? That doesn’t really make sense. You should judge what I say based on the content, not the medium.
In my mind, being online is no different than being in a public space in real life (except, you don’t have any voice or visual cues when communicating). You can have good friends online, and I try to find those people. wasteof has a much higher concentration of those people than any other place online.
I understand that’s not a common view, and we don’t have to be friends. I just want to be friendly, or at least not hate each other. Note that I have apologized for every single time I have upset you, including in this comment thread.
If the only way you will be friendly towards me is if I don’t debate or disagree with you on any topics, I’m willing to do that. If that’s what it takes to have a non-negative relationship, being friendly is worth more to me than having my opinion heard.